1 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:08,860 Previously on the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. I want you to come to the 2 00:00:08,860 --> 00:00:11,900 Hamptons with me. I don't even need to think about it. I will work it all out. 3 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:12,960 Yes, yes, yes, yes. 4 00:00:16,140 --> 00:00:17,440 Hot girl summer. 5 00:00:17,900 --> 00:00:23,660 You know what happened with the two embryos. They didn't make it. At the end 6 00:00:23,660 --> 00:00:27,540 the day, I want to say I did everything I could. And then if it doesn't work, I 7 00:00:27,540 --> 00:00:30,900 gave it my all, you know. You do not have a formal. 8 00:00:31,450 --> 00:00:35,110 Like custody situations? Like, for example, coming here, is that you 9 00:00:35,250 --> 00:00:37,750 saying, I'm leaving town, do you want the kids, or how does that work? I've 10 00:00:37,750 --> 00:00:42,230 asking him, let's make a fixed schedule. He said, let's do mediation. The judge 11 00:00:42,230 --> 00:00:45,630 came in the room, and he said, PK would like every other Thursday to Sunday. 12 00:00:46,010 --> 00:00:47,110 I said, done. 13 00:00:47,550 --> 00:00:50,690 Next. Yeah, you were going through a lot, but still going. 14 00:00:50,950 --> 00:00:56,830 I'm being sued by Tom's bankruptcy trustee, both his personal bankruptcy 15 00:00:56,830 --> 00:00:58,770 Girardi -Keith bankruptcy trustee. 16 00:00:59,420 --> 00:01:02,800 You know, Denise, I'm really sorry that this has happened to you. 17 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:06,120 Terrible. Just so you know, I went through this too. 18 00:01:11,660 --> 00:01:16,100 In this town, stars come and go, but diamonds last forever. 19 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:21,360 I'd die for fashion, but now I'm living for me. 20 00:01:21,980 --> 00:01:26,340 I turn ambition into an art form, and I am the masterpiece. 21 00:01:27,390 --> 00:01:31,350 I might live on a main road, but I'd definitely bring main character energy. 22 00:01:31,790 --> 00:01:33,310 I didn't marry into money. 23 00:01:33,610 --> 00:01:35,390 I manifested it. 24 00:01:37,430 --> 00:01:38,690 Survival isn't my story. 25 00:01:39,210 --> 00:01:40,530 It's my superpower. 26 00:01:42,050 --> 00:01:46,570 I'm unfiltered, unbothered, and finally, unburdened. 27 00:01:55,690 --> 00:01:58,050 I can't believe I'm allowing you to drive us to San Diego. 28 00:01:58,310 --> 00:01:59,730 I'm a little shocked, too, to be honest. 29 00:02:00,030 --> 00:02:01,110 It makes me so excited. 30 00:02:01,310 --> 00:02:03,510 You probably want to slow down so you can get behind this truck. 31 00:02:06,330 --> 00:02:07,330 Oh, we made it. 32 00:02:07,390 --> 00:02:10,889 We made it? Well, you've been driving for literally like 15 minutes. 33 00:02:11,110 --> 00:02:13,750 You still have two hours and 18 minutes to go. 34 00:02:14,310 --> 00:02:15,310 Check my high five. 35 00:02:19,830 --> 00:02:20,830 Victor? 36 00:02:21,190 --> 00:02:22,710 I'm not doing this very well. 37 00:02:23,150 --> 00:02:24,150 Yeah, keep reading up. 38 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:30,080 Sorry, 39 00:02:31,380 --> 00:02:32,460 I didn't feel like running. 40 00:02:33,300 --> 00:02:35,500 How come you're not panting and I am? 41 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:43,760 Okay, so for the wedding, you can be the flower girl with Delilah. 42 00:02:43,980 --> 00:02:45,520 What do you think about pulling her in a wagon? 43 00:02:46,020 --> 00:02:49,660 Fine. I mean, it might be funny if she just got out and ran away. 44 00:02:50,380 --> 00:02:53,340 It would be funny. It might be stressful on the bride. 45 00:03:06,450 --> 00:03:08,230 Yeah, they all flew to New York, baby. 46 00:03:10,270 --> 00:03:13,010 Yeah, we went on a commercial plane, my love. 47 00:03:15,130 --> 00:03:21,070 So, if you go to Disneyland today, do you think that you're going to try 48 00:03:21,070 --> 00:03:22,070 Mountain? 49 00:03:25,130 --> 00:03:26,490 You're definitely going? 50 00:03:28,330 --> 00:03:30,270 I'm so proud of you, baby. 51 00:03:31,210 --> 00:03:33,430 I'm really pleased that at least... 52 00:03:33,980 --> 00:03:38,860 I can be here in the Hamptons, and the kids can be with PK, and it feels a 53 00:03:38,860 --> 00:03:41,120 semblance of what it's supposed to feel like. 54 00:03:41,460 --> 00:03:48,140 I just hope and pray that this can carry on and we can finally start to co 55 00:03:48,140 --> 00:03:50,100 -parent the way we always should have. 56 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:52,380 So you ended up falling asleep, no problem. 57 00:03:52,940 --> 00:03:54,480 Hi. Yeah, 58 00:03:58,820 --> 00:03:59,820 she was good. 59 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:01,460 She ended up falling asleep okay. 60 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:04,280 Oh, good. 61 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:09,560 As far as my kids are concerned, they don't know a single bad thing that PK's 62 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:15,340 ever done to me. Even now, having to pretend, smile and wave, like everything 63 00:04:15,340 --> 00:04:16,839 hunky -dory, everything is great. 64 00:04:17,540 --> 00:04:22,580 It's hard, but I've done it believing that it's in the best interest of my 65 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:33,200 Honey, 66 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:36,980 it's completely and totally okay. 67 00:04:38,260 --> 00:04:39,260 I love you. 68 00:04:39,500 --> 00:04:40,960 I love you so much. 69 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:43,000 Bye, baby. Bye. 70 00:04:46,380 --> 00:04:47,380 Holy. 71 00:04:48,140 --> 00:04:49,140 Some wreck today. 72 00:04:55,280 --> 00:04:57,200 Sunglasses and a dress can hide a ton. 73 00:04:57,800 --> 00:04:59,980 I took Tylenol. I did an eye mask. 74 00:05:00,330 --> 00:05:01,330 I took B12. 75 00:05:01,390 --> 00:05:02,390 I took biotin. 76 00:05:02,610 --> 00:05:06,050 I took everything and nothing doing anything. 77 00:05:08,010 --> 00:05:09,010 Hi. 78 00:05:09,830 --> 00:05:10,830 Hi, honey. 79 00:05:11,050 --> 00:05:12,210 That is so cute. 80 00:05:12,410 --> 00:05:13,309 You know where I got this? 81 00:05:13,310 --> 00:05:14,310 It's a Zara. 82 00:05:15,810 --> 00:05:20,490 Honestly, Zara is so good. I love those. These are vintage. They are gorgeous. 83 00:05:21,650 --> 00:05:22,650 Yeah. 84 00:05:26,850 --> 00:05:27,850 No. 85 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:30,540 Not everything I own is designer. 86 00:05:31,060 --> 00:05:34,120 I mean, that's a bit. 87 00:05:34,840 --> 00:05:36,180 I'm so tired today. 88 00:05:36,900 --> 00:05:41,080 You're not tired because you didn't drink and you left at a normal time. I 89 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:45,120 home, I showered. I was in the DJ booth for like another hour and a half. 90 00:05:45,380 --> 00:05:49,520 Hi, honey. I can't with you. Excuse me. I have a little 25. 91 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:51,320 She's pretty. 92 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:53,900 Togo. You guys, I don't travel with mine. 93 00:05:54,220 --> 00:05:57,120 See, this is what I wanted to get and they told me, Kyle, you'll destroy it, 94 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:58,120 color, because I'm not delicate. 95 00:05:58,700 --> 00:06:00,620 I'm dying, dying for caffeine. 96 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:05,000 Trying. I've already had. I've already had two nimes. Oh, my God. Two copies. 97 00:06:05,420 --> 00:06:06,820 Dude, sweetie, I love you. 98 00:06:07,500 --> 00:06:09,800 Bye. Bye, honey. Bye. Love you, baby. 99 00:06:10,060 --> 00:06:12,620 See you soon. I need some retail therapy, guys. 100 00:06:20,860 --> 00:06:21,859 Thank you. 101 00:06:21,860 --> 00:06:25,580 All right, guys. I need to shop to cure my hangover here. Oh. 102 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:27,400 Hi. Hi. 103 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:28,600 How's it going? 104 00:06:30,740 --> 00:06:32,520 Oh, my gosh. This is all so pretty. 105 00:06:33,100 --> 00:06:35,120 You don't have, like, mommy, daughter. Yeah. 106 00:06:35,420 --> 00:06:39,260 Shut the front door. Are we already shopping? We're not even in the store. 107 00:06:39,260 --> 00:06:43,020 my daughter. It's all, like, how quirky and cute is that? I cannot. I cannot, 108 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:47,700 you guys. I cannot. I cannot. Oh, and this is cute, you guys. So pretty. I 109 00:06:47,900 --> 00:06:51,160 Like, I like this. I love how we just left my Kelly on the table. 110 00:06:52,180 --> 00:06:53,180 What do you think? 111 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:56,680 I know it's supposed to be like this, but I always feel like it's too pointy 112 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:59,980 my hat. No, it looks so good. I need to buy my hat, you guys. 113 00:07:01,700 --> 00:07:04,400 Dorit. And I will definitely try, you know, this. 114 00:07:04,700 --> 00:07:05,700 Dorit, Rachel. 115 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:09,000 Yeah, love. I'm meeting you at the jewelry store next door. Okay, great. 116 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:10,000 meet you there. Okay. 117 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:16,600 Dorit, what's happening over there, babe? Do you need help? We could do this 118 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:18,060 like 47 different ways. 119 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:21,540 Such a vibe. Oh, me. 120 00:07:22,020 --> 00:07:23,020 How's it look in front? 121 00:07:23,270 --> 00:07:24,270 Love it as a husband. 122 00:07:26,250 --> 00:07:27,250 Such a vibe. 123 00:07:27,610 --> 00:07:28,610 Such a vibe. 124 00:07:28,810 --> 00:07:32,650 I think the only difference in my shopping habits since I've been 125 00:07:32,650 --> 00:07:39,590 find I'm not buying quite as impulsively or as much. I like 126 00:07:39,590 --> 00:07:40,590 this. I love this. 127 00:07:40,910 --> 00:07:42,750 Let me see if they have this in my size. 128 00:07:43,070 --> 00:07:44,650 Do you want the dress as well? Well, I do. 129 00:07:45,090 --> 00:07:46,550 I'm going to have a whole new wardrobe. 130 00:07:46,790 --> 00:07:51,170 As a single mother, my expenses have gone up, but I've been hustling. 131 00:07:51,550 --> 00:07:54,650 My tush on. Dorit, I have a hat for you to wear with the lounge set. 132 00:07:55,130 --> 00:07:56,190 It matches perfect. 133 00:07:56,510 --> 00:07:56,869 All right. 134 00:07:56,870 --> 00:07:58,070 Listen. No, Rachel. 135 00:07:58,310 --> 00:08:00,350 This is why they pay me the big bucks, Dorit. 136 00:08:00,970 --> 00:08:04,830 I still can treat myself a fair amount. 137 00:08:05,710 --> 00:08:07,290 And maybe more than a fair amount. 138 00:08:07,950 --> 00:08:08,950 But I'm responsible. 139 00:08:09,530 --> 00:08:12,450 This is such a vibe. Such a love. 140 00:08:12,970 --> 00:08:14,730 Such a vibe. 141 00:08:15,010 --> 00:08:18,710 Dorit, meet me next door at Georgiana. I'm going to meet Kyle. Okay. 142 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:22,040 Hi, lady. 143 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:24,840 Hi. Literally, Tori just bought half the store. 144 00:08:25,300 --> 00:08:26,660 What is the damage, my love? 145 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:29,520 Your total is $4 ,589 .50. 146 00:08:29,900 --> 00:08:36,000 Okay. That one didn't go through. Do you have another one? 147 00:08:36,620 --> 00:08:37,720 Not at all, honey. 148 00:08:48,489 --> 00:08:50,730 Your total is $4 ,589. 149 00:08:51,810 --> 00:08:56,930 That one didn't go through. Do you have another one? 150 00:08:57,510 --> 00:09:01,190 Come on. 151 00:09:05,930 --> 00:09:08,770 Come on, come on, come on, come on, come on. 152 00:09:09,290 --> 00:09:13,210 You know what? I'm just going to give you another card because I'm not getting 153 00:09:13,210 --> 00:09:15,270 text or an email. 154 00:09:16,950 --> 00:09:19,010 Dorit is still MIA. 155 00:09:19,530 --> 00:09:22,010 On Dorit time. Oh, my God. 156 00:09:22,970 --> 00:09:24,310 We're on Dorit time, exactly. 157 00:09:25,670 --> 00:09:27,050 I have to call the bank now. 158 00:09:28,690 --> 00:09:30,070 All right, that one was perfect. 159 00:09:30,430 --> 00:09:31,430 Here's your receipt. 160 00:09:31,870 --> 00:09:33,190 It's called a fraud alert. 161 00:09:33,490 --> 00:09:37,270 Thank you so much for everything. Take care. Thank you. And it's not because of 162 00:09:37,270 --> 00:09:38,029 my spending. 163 00:09:38,030 --> 00:09:40,250 It's because I'm 3 ,000 miles away from my home. 164 00:09:41,610 --> 00:09:43,570 You guys, I didn't try this. 165 00:09:43,890 --> 00:09:44,990 But I was meant to. 166 00:09:46,359 --> 00:09:50,320 Yeah. Can you charge my card? I can text you and charge my card through this. 167 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:51,440 Fabulous. Okay. 168 00:09:51,580 --> 00:09:52,580 Thank you. 169 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:54,440 There she comes. 170 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:55,600 She has a holy outfit on. 171 00:09:56,020 --> 00:09:57,020 Oh, hello. 172 00:09:57,180 --> 00:09:58,520 How good is this? 173 00:09:58,760 --> 00:09:59,419 I mean. 174 00:09:59,420 --> 00:10:02,920 You have no idea. Oh, my God. Everything is on brand. Oh, my God. What did you 175 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:06,780 buy? She got like six outfits. 176 00:10:07,180 --> 00:10:08,180 What was your total? 177 00:10:09,580 --> 00:10:10,580 Three. 178 00:10:10,740 --> 00:10:12,460 You did just find like a house. 179 00:10:26,090 --> 00:10:27,090 That was successful. 180 00:10:27,410 --> 00:10:28,490 Like hard and fast. 181 00:10:29,170 --> 00:10:31,350 Very, very productive shopping day. 182 00:10:31,570 --> 00:10:35,470 What is happening here? I want to do something special for my family. My 183 00:10:35,470 --> 00:10:36,249 loves wine. 184 00:10:36,250 --> 00:10:37,750 So we have Wolfer here. 185 00:10:37,990 --> 00:10:39,350 Nice to see you. How are you? 186 00:10:39,790 --> 00:10:40,790 I'm so excited. 187 00:10:41,170 --> 00:10:44,030 Okay, you guys, I'm going to go do like a quick change situation. 188 00:10:44,570 --> 00:10:46,450 See, I'm going to run up and change. Yeah, okay. 189 00:10:46,690 --> 00:10:48,970 Because your parents are going to get here on 6. 190 00:10:49,390 --> 00:10:52,890 Perfect. And then dinner, we have to leave by like 7 .30, I think. Yeah. 191 00:10:58,030 --> 00:10:59,190 Hi, boo -boo. How are you? 192 00:10:59,810 --> 00:11:01,030 Do you want to spend the night at Dad's? 193 00:11:01,690 --> 00:11:02,689 Oh. I don't know. 194 00:11:02,690 --> 00:11:04,690 Okay, boo -boo. Bo is FaceTiming me. 195 00:11:04,970 --> 00:11:07,810 But I love you so much. I'll check in with you. Love you. Love you. Bye. 196 00:11:10,090 --> 00:11:14,430 Hello. Hi, babe. How's it going? I called you because I was like, the FOMO 197 00:11:14,430 --> 00:11:17,850 damn killing me. Did you see our Instagram stories? We were having so 198 00:11:17,850 --> 00:11:18,850 yesterday. 199 00:11:20,850 --> 00:11:26,590 You're hot as... I was dancing more than anybody for the longest time. 200 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:31,880 Last year, Boze and I struggled to connect on a deeper level. 201 00:11:32,100 --> 00:11:34,660 Did you not say that she hasn't been welcoming to you? 202 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:36,880 Yeah, we haven't connected. 203 00:11:38,020 --> 00:11:43,200 So I appreciate that she's making the effort to get to know me better, 204 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:44,079 from Greed. 205 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:46,140 Do you think this weekend has been helpful? 206 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:47,440 I mean, honestly, 207 00:11:48,260 --> 00:11:50,220 PK has the kids right now for four days. 208 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:52,000 Wow, 209 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:54,760 you guys are away. That's really good. Yeah. 210 00:11:55,490 --> 00:11:58,370 But she's been a little bit like, I don't know, I can't explain. 211 00:11:59,590 --> 00:12:01,090 I can't really put my finger on it. 212 00:12:01,390 --> 00:12:05,670 You know, I got to the airport, and she was still at home, had not even left 213 00:12:05,670 --> 00:12:06,670 yet. 214 00:12:06,730 --> 00:12:10,610 Then she gets there, and she forgot her passport, and she doesn't have a real 215 00:12:10,610 --> 00:12:17,590 ID. I don't know if it's manic, or if it's, like, OCD kicking in, like, 216 00:12:17,610 --> 00:12:18,529 because of anxiety. 217 00:12:18,530 --> 00:12:19,530 I used to get that. 218 00:12:19,610 --> 00:12:24,290 When Mo and I were first separated, everyone was so focused on my not 219 00:12:24,290 --> 00:12:26,230 and working out too much. 220 00:12:26,510 --> 00:12:29,210 I mean, Dorit was the first one to point that out to me. 221 00:12:29,510 --> 00:12:34,130 Do you think that, like, this whole not drinking and distancing yourself for a 222 00:12:34,130 --> 00:12:37,150 minute was to try to protect yourself, get control? 223 00:12:37,350 --> 00:12:38,350 Maybe. 224 00:12:38,510 --> 00:12:42,970 But I feel like if I were to say that to her, it would not go well. 225 00:12:43,250 --> 00:12:46,450 And right now I want to focus on staying on the right path with her. 226 00:12:46,810 --> 00:12:48,350 We all know that Dorit is late. 227 00:12:48,680 --> 00:12:52,900 But it's not like a glam late thing. It's like it's other stuff. It's like 228 00:12:52,900 --> 00:12:54,900 just sort of like a little scattered. 229 00:12:55,540 --> 00:13:00,600 Kyle has been warning Dorit to be careful of the way she describes PK's 230 00:13:00,600 --> 00:13:02,900 personality so it doesn't blow back on her. 231 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:06,920 Kyle should actually take her own advice about how she's talking about Dorit's 232 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:09,540 personality, especially given this contentious divorce. 233 00:13:09,780 --> 00:13:14,900 If PK hears that and can use it against Dorit, that's a problem. 234 00:13:15,260 --> 00:13:18,260 Today at the store, she was shopping like crazy, by the way. 235 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:20,520 Oh, she was buying too much stuff? 236 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:21,960 Spending too much money? 237 00:13:22,180 --> 00:13:25,620 I mean, yeah. In my opinion, that's too much money to be spending in situations 238 00:13:25,620 --> 00:13:26,519 right now. 239 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:31,520 I mean, I wasn't even worried when I heard she bought like a Kelly like 240 00:13:31,780 --> 00:13:33,480 you know? Oh, the little Hermes bag. 241 00:13:34,100 --> 00:13:37,400 And, you know, I was kind of like, yeah, I bought some stuff when I got my 242 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,460 advance on my book. You know what I mean? Like, okay. 243 00:13:39,780 --> 00:13:45,400 But the challenge is you've got a looming, you know, financial crisis. 244 00:13:46,020 --> 00:13:48,060 And so I don't know that. 245 00:13:48,910 --> 00:13:53,090 Well, she's used to standing like this, so it's a hard adjustment for her. I 246 00:13:53,090 --> 00:13:55,690 think that it does deserve a conversation. 247 00:13:56,230 --> 00:14:00,130 Just to better understand, like, how can we best support her so that she can 248 00:14:00,130 --> 00:14:01,430 feel more focused? 249 00:14:01,910 --> 00:14:02,910 I know. 250 00:14:03,590 --> 00:14:04,590 I don't know. 251 00:14:07,530 --> 00:14:11,930 Coming up... I'll tell you how it feels. It feels like I'm being crushed. 252 00:14:12,370 --> 00:14:15,470 And I'm trying to find the beauty in the moment and all those... 253 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:19,180 In cliches, something good's going to come of this. Really? 254 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:20,400 And when? 255 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:41,659 Hi, welcome. 256 00:14:41,660 --> 00:14:45,380 Hi. I'm meeting a friend here. This is two of us. Okay. Yeah, right this way. 257 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:46,720 Thank you. 258 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:47,880 All right, enjoy. 259 00:14:50,140 --> 00:14:53,540 Hello, Sutton. Hi. Hi. How are you? 260 00:14:53,840 --> 00:15:00,080 Good. You look like Oceanside. I tried to look Oceanside. I tried to do a 261 00:15:00,340 --> 00:15:02,420 Hello. How are you? What's your name? Jerry. 262 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:04,020 Jerry. I'm Jennifer. 263 00:15:04,300 --> 00:15:07,840 I would love a glass of rosé. Do you have rosé by the glass? Yes, ma 'am. 264 00:15:08,090 --> 00:15:11,450 I am so starving. What can we get right away that will make me not hungry? Quark 265 00:15:11,450 --> 00:15:13,970 and chips. We can do some bread. Quark and chips. That sounds perfect. Thank 266 00:15:13,970 --> 00:15:15,050 you. Perfect. Sounds good. Thank you. 267 00:15:15,490 --> 00:15:20,470 I was thinking about this place because when I rented a house here, it was in 268 00:15:20,470 --> 00:15:22,790 2016, and I was up the hill. 269 00:15:22,990 --> 00:15:23,990 It was a great house. 270 00:15:24,210 --> 00:15:27,990 Look, here's Porter on the beach right here. Oh, wow. That's amazing. 271 00:15:28,350 --> 00:15:29,350 Isn't it wild? 272 00:15:29,670 --> 00:15:34,930 This is the last summer that I was together with Christian because he moved 273 00:15:34,930 --> 00:15:35,809 in September. 274 00:15:35,810 --> 00:15:36,810 Wow. 275 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:40,440 that I knew 10 years ago. She was very chic. 276 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:44,960 She was cultured. She belonged to the board of the museum. The really handsome 277 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:49,640 husband was very successful. They seemed like the perfect couple that could 278 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:50,740 never put a step wrong. 279 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:55,180 As time went on, I could see that there were cracks in their marriage, and I 280 00:15:55,180 --> 00:15:58,600 started to realize that everything wasn't the perfect picture that they 281 00:15:58,600 --> 00:15:59,720 presenting to the world. 282 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:01,340 What was your name again? 283 00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:05,300 Jerry. Jerry, Jerry, Jerry, Jerry. Thank you, Jerry. Thank you, Jerry. I'm 284 00:16:05,300 --> 00:16:06,300 Jennifer. Thank you. 285 00:16:07,130 --> 00:16:12,870 I had a big conversation with Porter, and I said, you know, the annulment went 286 00:16:12,870 --> 00:16:15,290 through, and then I started crying. 287 00:16:15,830 --> 00:16:19,570 But it doesn't, like, make me less like your mother. 288 00:16:21,290 --> 00:16:22,290 No. 289 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:28,080 Oh, it's a very emotional thing. I'm like, it's really kind of hitting me. 290 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:31,280 very strange for me to talk about it. I did not know that it was going to hit me 291 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:33,620 because I've been talking about this for months. Yeah, you've been talking about 292 00:16:33,620 --> 00:16:37,460 it for a while. I mean, I'm not recently going through a divorce. Like, I really 293 00:16:37,460 --> 00:16:39,060 feel like I'm pretty single. 294 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:43,120 And she's got the new girlfriend. 295 00:16:43,500 --> 00:16:44,500 The new hoochie mama. 296 00:16:44,700 --> 00:16:47,480 No, she's not a hoochie mama. She's a mom. A mom. She's a mom. 297 00:16:48,330 --> 00:16:52,530 I feel like the fact that Christian asked for the annulment because he wants 298 00:16:52,530 --> 00:16:56,770 get married to somebody that was once a very close friend of Sutton adds an 299 00:16:56,770 --> 00:16:58,090 extra layer of betrayal. 300 00:16:58,490 --> 00:16:59,950 Is he with somebody else now? 301 00:17:00,230 --> 00:17:01,530 Yeah. We were friends. 302 00:17:01,790 --> 00:17:03,330 Oh. Wow. 303 00:17:03,550 --> 00:17:04,550 It's all weird. 304 00:17:04,950 --> 00:17:10,470 Wow. When I found out that Christian was dating my friend who we had raised our 305 00:17:10,470 --> 00:17:13,930 boys together, I was shocked. 306 00:17:14,810 --> 00:17:19,430 I think the biggest betrayal was that neither one of them told me about the 307 00:17:19,430 --> 00:17:22,030 relationship. I had to hear it from my son. 308 00:17:22,329 --> 00:17:25,710 You're very respectful about Christian, what you say about Christian. Well, 309 00:17:25,730 --> 00:17:28,130 yeah. Because he's the father of three children. And we have a long history 310 00:17:28,130 --> 00:17:32,850 together. I think Sutton worked really hard to say, oh, I'm okay with that. 311 00:17:33,250 --> 00:17:37,550 Looks like he's going to marry my best friend. But I think that she doesn't 312 00:17:37,550 --> 00:17:41,510 to get too close to the tragicness of the situation. 313 00:17:42,270 --> 00:17:44,790 If it was happening to me, I would be raging. 314 00:17:45,050 --> 00:17:46,390 I mean, raging. 315 00:17:47,190 --> 00:17:50,150 Because it's unfair. 316 00:17:50,770 --> 00:17:54,570 I, you know, want to remain Catholic, and that's important to me. 317 00:17:54,950 --> 00:17:59,590 But I'm no longer a strack in the Catholic Church. So I really want to be 318 00:17:59,670 --> 00:18:00,670 I really do. 319 00:18:00,790 --> 00:18:04,310 You can be whoever you want to be. You're entering a whole new phase of 320 00:18:04,310 --> 00:18:05,310 life. Yeah. 321 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:09,220 Well, you did Christian a really big favor by agreeing to the annulment. By 322 00:18:09,220 --> 00:18:10,159 marrying him? 323 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:11,160 Just kidding. 324 00:18:15,540 --> 00:18:22,420 I want cake. I'm not going to eat 325 00:18:22,420 --> 00:18:26,220 it now. I'm going to eat it after therapy as a therapy reward. 326 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:27,560 That's what I'm going to do. 327 00:18:30,420 --> 00:18:31,420 Hello. 328 00:18:31,790 --> 00:18:33,190 I am so excited to see you. 329 00:18:33,410 --> 00:18:35,090 I am so excited for you. 330 00:18:36,230 --> 00:18:39,410 I'm waiting until after our session to eat chocolate cake. 331 00:18:39,630 --> 00:18:41,210 A little delayed gratification. 332 00:18:41,610 --> 00:18:42,610 See what you taught me? 333 00:18:42,750 --> 00:18:46,510 It's the sweet reward for the hard work. For the hard work we're doing. 334 00:18:47,450 --> 00:18:48,530 It's been a minute. 335 00:18:48,850 --> 00:18:54,750 Yeah. I want to talk about... I have an upcoming trial. 336 00:18:57,150 --> 00:18:58,150 And... 337 00:18:58,800 --> 00:19:00,980 They're taking me to trial for $25 million. 338 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:04,640 This is the bankruptcy trustee. Yeah. 339 00:19:05,100 --> 00:19:09,140 You know I have a $10 million tax bill as well that Tom left me with. 340 00:19:09,420 --> 00:19:10,860 No. Yes. 341 00:19:12,420 --> 00:19:15,400 You know how people always say, like, what's the worst that could happen? 342 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:16,400 the worst happened. 343 00:19:16,660 --> 00:19:19,700 The worst happened for Tom. 344 00:19:20,360 --> 00:19:21,360 Yes. 345 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:26,080 The worst actually didn't happen for you because you're here with me now. 346 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:33,820 I'm really tired. 347 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:35,320 Yeah. 348 00:19:36,260 --> 00:19:38,200 I know you are. I'm just tired. 349 00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:46,020 If you learn nothing from all of this, one thing that you've learned is all we 350 00:19:46,020 --> 00:19:47,620 have is the now. 351 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:49,620 But the now isn't that great. 352 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:52,640 You know what I mean? The now sucks. 353 00:19:54,620 --> 00:19:59,800 You are now in a beautiful environment, in a safe home, in a lovely 354 00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:01,580 relationship. Yes. 355 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:10,480 But no one understands how hard that is to smile and say, no, it's going to be 356 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:11,740 okay and it's fine. 357 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:19,240 And it's also, too, like, something 358 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:25,980 happened on Saturday night. I saw Denise. 359 00:20:27,780 --> 00:20:31,720 And, you know, she's going through a divorce. 360 00:20:32,650 --> 00:20:35,210 And her husband had hit her. 361 00:20:37,510 --> 00:20:44,430 And I just thought it was the right time to 362 00:20:44,430 --> 00:20:46,930 talk about what had happened to me. 363 00:20:47,730 --> 00:20:51,530 So I laughed. Of course, nobody knew. 364 00:20:52,650 --> 00:20:54,610 There's a lot of shame around that. 365 00:20:54,850 --> 00:21:00,790 You know, that getting hit or choked or kicked. 366 00:21:03,210 --> 00:21:08,470 When Denise said, you know, she didn't want to call the police, and I said, 367 00:21:08,530 --> 00:21:15,470 yeah, I didn't want to either because I knew if I did, it would just be bigger. 368 00:21:18,510 --> 00:21:20,050 You want that to happen? 369 00:21:20,250 --> 00:21:21,250 Yeah. 370 00:21:22,950 --> 00:21:28,850 And then to say, you know, when you're a kid, it's the police. 371 00:21:29,570 --> 00:21:32,330 Yeah. I mean, it's even more shameful. 372 00:21:32,780 --> 00:21:33,960 Yeah. And harder. 373 00:21:35,780 --> 00:21:41,180 What happened to you was terrifying. 374 00:21:42,860 --> 00:21:46,240 Look, you were very lucky that you survived. 375 00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:53,400 The thing that I have most worried about with you with that incident is that you 376 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:58,100 have been carrying it around and you've been carrying the shame of it around. 377 00:21:58,360 --> 00:22:00,660 And by speaking about it. 378 00:22:01,230 --> 00:22:03,590 That's the first step in letting go of it. 379 00:22:04,170 --> 00:22:05,950 Are you sure I did the right thing? 380 00:22:06,530 --> 00:22:08,330 I'm 100 % positive. 381 00:22:08,930 --> 00:22:10,470 Sure. Yeah. 382 00:22:10,910 --> 00:22:12,450 I know it for sure. 383 00:22:12,850 --> 00:22:16,790 Okay. You carried this around way too long. 384 00:22:17,070 --> 00:22:20,970 Okay. First time when you talked to me about it. I blew it off. 385 00:22:21,250 --> 00:22:26,290 Yeah. And you described it to me as if you were describing something that 386 00:22:26,290 --> 00:22:29,170 happened to someone else. Someone else, which is what I've always said. 387 00:22:29,660 --> 00:22:34,580 been able to take my own personalization out of everything. 388 00:22:35,180 --> 00:22:37,780 And that's how I've survived for a long time. 389 00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:43,540 I don't know what to do now. 390 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:47,340 Not that, but just in life. 391 00:22:47,620 --> 00:22:53,260 Yeah. I don't know what to do. I feel so lost. 392 00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:57,540 And I worked hard on getting here. I'm healthy. 393 00:22:58,090 --> 00:23:00,750 But at the same time, am I really living? 394 00:23:01,150 --> 00:23:02,730 Am I really happy? 395 00:23:02,990 --> 00:23:08,790 Or am I just treading water until all of these cases are over and everybody 396 00:23:08,790 --> 00:23:12,930 wanting answers? And what do you think? And how does it feel? I'll tell you how 397 00:23:12,930 --> 00:23:15,230 it feels. It feels like I'm being crushed. 398 00:23:15,870 --> 00:23:18,990 And I'm trying really hard not to be crushed. 399 00:23:19,210 --> 00:23:24,250 And to find the beauty in the moment and all those cliches that everybody wants 400 00:23:24,250 --> 00:23:25,250 to throw at your feet. 401 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:28,640 Something good's going to come of this. Really? And when? 402 00:23:29,660 --> 00:23:31,660 Here's one of the secrets of life. 403 00:23:32,100 --> 00:23:37,360 Okay. We imagine that there's going to be a moment in time where all the bills 404 00:23:37,360 --> 00:23:43,820 are paid, our laundry is folded and in the drawers, we have no major stressor, 405 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:48,720 we've gotten to the other side of everything, there's no new terrible 406 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:50,720 happens. Yes, I want this. There's no here. 407 00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:52,160 That doesn't... 408 00:23:52,910 --> 00:23:57,710 I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but there is no thing here. 409 00:23:58,330 --> 00:24:01,650 Oh, God. This is it. This is life. 410 00:24:02,010 --> 00:24:08,970 With this messy up and down, and you have to embrace it, and you have to 411 00:24:08,970 --> 00:24:13,370 accept it, and the more you fight it... The bigger and the worse it is. 412 00:24:13,610 --> 00:24:14,610 Yeah. 413 00:24:17,470 --> 00:24:19,250 Just try to keep it all together. 414 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,580 I'm the only on -time person in my entire family. 415 00:24:58,840 --> 00:24:59,840 Hi. 416 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:01,380 Hi. Hi. 417 00:25:01,660 --> 00:25:02,519 Hi, family. 418 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:03,560 Hi, family. 419 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:08,420 It's so great to see you. Hi. I'm sorry I haven't been able to see you. Hi. 420 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:15,680 It's been so long. I mean, it's been honestly forever since my whole family's 421 00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:17,160 been together, probably since Christmas. 422 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:18,460 Should we go outside? 423 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:19,800 Yes, let's do it. 424 00:25:19,940 --> 00:25:24,700 But we are actually the most connected family of all time. 425 00:25:25,050 --> 00:25:28,590 You know, I always joke that when I moved to L .A., like, the best my 426 00:25:28,590 --> 00:25:31,710 relationship with my mother has ever been. 427 00:25:32,010 --> 00:25:34,290 I like the driest one. I think it's the white. 428 00:25:34,990 --> 00:25:37,910 I am so obsessed with this one. 429 00:25:39,230 --> 00:25:40,930 Kyle, nice to meet you. 430 00:25:41,710 --> 00:25:45,770 Nice to meet you. Kyle, you look gorgeous. 431 00:25:46,030 --> 00:25:48,590 How are you? So nice to meet you. 432 00:25:49,030 --> 00:25:51,350 I've heard a lot about you all. 433 00:25:51,950 --> 00:25:54,010 Anytime I see someone... 434 00:25:54,330 --> 00:25:56,530 that has both of their parents, Phil. 435 00:25:57,230 --> 00:25:59,790 I'm just in awe, really. 436 00:26:00,150 --> 00:26:02,010 This is my daughter. 437 00:26:02,830 --> 00:26:04,690 She has us. Nice to see you again. 438 00:26:05,010 --> 00:26:08,910 And my mom, I think you met. Yeah, we just met. 439 00:26:09,530 --> 00:26:16,310 It would have been amazing to have had my mom and my dad to lean on 440 00:26:16,310 --> 00:26:18,530 when Mo and I were first separated. 441 00:26:19,210 --> 00:26:21,850 You just want to pick up the phone and be like, Mom. 442 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:26,560 She's lucky to have them. 443 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:33,440 I was like, I'm not sure if you'll meet Dorit or not, but... I was like, 444 00:26:33,460 --> 00:26:38,960 well... She was struggling with her outfit and her makeup. 445 00:26:39,220 --> 00:26:43,000 I know, and then she thought it looked fall or winter, so we were having a 446 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:46,900 whole... Do I need to go help her? And she didn't think it felt Hamptons -y, 447 00:26:46,900 --> 00:26:50,520 my dress is very... She thought Hamptons -y. Should I go run down and get her? 448 00:26:50,980 --> 00:26:52,560 Honestly, this is rude. 449 00:26:53,379 --> 00:26:57,640 We are not even leaving the house. We're at the house, and she's still making 450 00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:01,200 Rachel's parents wait. She is just caught up in her own world and not 451 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:02,760 about anybody else. 452 00:27:03,260 --> 00:27:06,160 Kyle has a home in one of our favorite places, in Aspen. 453 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:07,520 Oh, really? 454 00:27:07,540 --> 00:27:09,260 They have houses all over the place. 455 00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:10,680 Desert, Aspen. 456 00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,980 Two in L .A.? Two in L .A. What was the last one? 457 00:27:14,220 --> 00:27:15,400 Nashville. Oh, Nashville. 458 00:27:15,700 --> 00:27:16,820 I don't know why you're going out in Nashville. 459 00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:20,700 Well, it's an investment property. The properties are amazing, too. 460 00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:23,060 I see the queen. 461 00:27:23,300 --> 00:27:25,360 Oh, my goodness. 462 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,860 You're wearing a new outfit. I love it. 463 00:27:29,100 --> 00:27:32,980 Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Yeah, let's not do that. 464 00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:35,080 Hi, I'm Dorit. 465 00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:37,080 Dorit. 466 00:27:38,420 --> 00:27:40,920 Dorit. Yes. Hello. Lovely to meet you, Leslie. 467 00:27:41,140 --> 00:27:42,140 Lovely to meet you. 468 00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:44,760 best time with your daughter. 469 00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:47,360 Well, you could not have a better person. 470 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:50,260 She's not just another pretty face. 471 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:56,460 My mom is like Elizabeth Taylor. I don't know what to say. I don't have one 472 00:27:56,460 --> 00:28:02,200 recollection of my mother in jeans, sweats, without makeup or without 473 00:28:02,700 --> 00:28:03,700 Like never. 474 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:08,060 She calls me her apple from the tree because, you know, we are very similar. 475 00:28:08,670 --> 00:28:12,890 When I met Rachel, the first 10 minutes, it was like same, same, same. She's 476 00:28:12,890 --> 00:28:14,850 going through a not similar. 477 00:28:15,230 --> 00:28:17,650 Neither are you. I know. That's what happens. 478 00:28:17,890 --> 00:28:20,810 You share a lot in common. Yeah, we do. Right away at hello. 479 00:28:21,170 --> 00:28:25,230 Kyle, on the other hand, is not divorced but separated but happily separated and 480 00:28:25,230 --> 00:28:26,630 really best friends with her. 481 00:28:27,150 --> 00:28:29,210 Getting along is better. 482 00:28:29,430 --> 00:28:33,810 But I also think you is going to be okay, too, in a different way because I 483 00:28:33,810 --> 00:28:36,370 don't think he has. He's not that bad person. 484 00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,200 No, he's not a bad person at all. He never was. 485 00:28:40,620 --> 00:28:43,660 He never was. But he's got a different behavior now. 486 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,960 Well, that's true, but, you know, life happens. Yeah. 487 00:28:47,900 --> 00:28:52,820 My ex was not a son -in -law to them. She was a son. 488 00:28:54,920 --> 00:29:00,040 So... I can't talk. 489 00:29:04,810 --> 00:29:09,010 It's unfortunate because we have young kids, so it's that much more important 490 00:29:09,010 --> 00:29:12,770 that you have a good relationship with your ex. Very important. 491 00:29:13,770 --> 00:29:19,130 I feel bad for my family. I feel bad that they lost her. You know, he was 492 00:29:19,130 --> 00:29:21,530 their favorite person for so long. 493 00:29:24,270 --> 00:29:25,270 It was mine. 494 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:31,300 Hey, girls, we've got to go to dinner. We do. We're going to Swispies. If I had 495 00:29:31,300 --> 00:29:35,220 it my way, I'd be here all night chatting to you guys. So let's go to 496 00:29:38,540 --> 00:29:39,540 Coming up. 497 00:29:39,980 --> 00:29:43,080 What if, like, I lost my source of income? 498 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:45,960 How would you still feel about me? 499 00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:47,600 Oy! 500 00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:05,440 Beautiful spot. 501 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:06,680 Hi, welcome. 502 00:30:06,820 --> 00:30:08,380 Watson, St. John. 503 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:10,060 Also follow me right this way. 504 00:30:10,260 --> 00:30:11,260 Okay. 505 00:30:15,820 --> 00:30:19,880 I got it, I got it. Yes, thank you. Sorry. 506 00:30:20,180 --> 00:30:21,180 My bad. 507 00:30:22,460 --> 00:30:23,780 Thank you, honey. 508 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:27,020 Thank you so much. 509 00:30:27,660 --> 00:30:28,820 Chivalry is not dead. 510 00:30:30,500 --> 00:30:33,620 Peter's death left a lot of absence in our lives. 511 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:36,720 Not just in the big things, but also in the small things. 512 00:30:37,140 --> 00:30:41,500 Like in pulling out a chair for me to sit or opening a car door. 513 00:30:41,820 --> 00:30:43,700 Lael didn't get to see any of that. 514 00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:48,340 You know what, I think we're going to try a bottle of the Tuscan rosé. Yeah, 515 00:30:48,340 --> 00:30:50,040 guys want to do a salad or anything perhaps? 516 00:30:50,340 --> 00:30:51,340 Maybe burrata? 517 00:30:51,620 --> 00:30:56,820 With Keeley, Lael has an illustration of what chivalry looks like. 518 00:30:57,020 --> 00:31:01,240 And I love for her to be able to experience that because it's all brand 519 00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:02,960 her. A toast. A toast. 520 00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:03,999 San Diego. 521 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:07,380 Yes. Yep. And being together, right? 522 00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:14,660 All right. I am excited about continuing our fertility journey, but 523 00:31:14,660 --> 00:31:19,900 it was very, very disappointing to me that, you know, our embryos didn't make 524 00:31:19,900 --> 00:31:26,780 it. To me, it felt as shocking as, like, you know, when the doctor said 525 00:31:26,780 --> 00:31:30,580 Eve didn't make it. And I would be lying if I said that in that moment I didn't 526 00:31:30,580 --> 00:31:31,580 want to run. 527 00:31:32,570 --> 00:31:35,010 So let's say this next round doesn't work. 528 00:31:35,470 --> 00:31:38,490 Are you going to want to take a break just to give your body a break? 529 00:31:38,870 --> 00:31:42,290 Yeah, I don't know. I think that would have to be a bigger conversation because 530 00:31:42,290 --> 00:31:45,870 there are lots of what ifs. 531 00:31:46,610 --> 00:31:47,790 What ifs? Yeah. 532 00:31:47,990 --> 00:31:54,110 I think the most terrifying what if to me right now, to date, is the fact that 533 00:31:54,110 --> 00:31:59,070 know that you want a baby and I'm afraid about what if it doesn't happen. 534 00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:02,780 That's to me the most terrifying what if. 535 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,860 No matter what, I don't want to marry you. 536 00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:10,640 Okay? 537 00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:14,120 Still want to call you a stepdaughter or daughter one day. 538 00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:17,620 You know, things moving forward. 539 00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:19,440 I'm glad to hear that. 540 00:32:20,100 --> 00:32:22,420 I have to trust what he says. 541 00:32:23,180 --> 00:32:27,640 But at the same time, I wonder whether or not he's going to resent me. 542 00:32:28,140 --> 00:32:34,180 for keeping him from being a father or if he's going to feel the need to make 543 00:32:34,180 --> 00:32:35,860 happen regardless of me. 544 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:41,780 And that is an answer I don't know that I have outside of what he is telling me. 545 00:32:42,300 --> 00:32:47,280 In the big schema thing, there are a lot of what ifs. I think one of my biggest 546 00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:53,660 fears has always been what if, like, I lost my source of income 547 00:32:53,660 --> 00:32:57,560 or lost my job, you know. 548 00:32:58,080 --> 00:32:59,660 How would you still feel about me? 549 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:06,660 I mean, I'm not going to become no deadbeat. You know, you'll never see me 550 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:09,360 Right, right. But, like, what if I couldn't do that? 551 00:33:10,060 --> 00:33:13,960 Okay. Well, look, the thing is that, like, I love you for you. 552 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:18,760 I think you provide more to me than just financial security. 553 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,820 If those other things stop, now we got a problem. 554 00:33:24,260 --> 00:33:25,260 You know? 555 00:33:26,580 --> 00:33:27,580 Oy! 556 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:30,880 Guys, this has been a very deep conversation. 557 00:33:32,140 --> 00:33:36,040 Just so you know, I'm going to continue my businesses. 558 00:33:36,660 --> 00:33:38,900 You know, I'm going to continue working. 559 00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:41,680 I like having my own money. 560 00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:43,280 All right, well, good. 561 00:33:56,780 --> 00:33:58,160 Yeah, you should meet a boy tonight. 562 00:33:58,380 --> 00:33:59,380 Oh, my God. 563 00:33:59,740 --> 00:34:04,440 Like, actually, I am a big believer in these things being organic. 564 00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:05,720 You can meet people. 565 00:34:06,100 --> 00:34:09,920 In the wild. In the wild. That's what I'm saying. In a market, sitting on a 566 00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:11,100 plane. That's what I'm saying. 567 00:34:11,380 --> 00:34:12,380 You know what happened to me once? 568 00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:17,320 I was on a plane, and I was sitting next to this guy, and we were talking, 569 00:34:17,420 --> 00:34:23,540 whatever, and next thing I know, he hands me a note that he's written on the 570 00:34:23,540 --> 00:34:25,360 airline. Cocktail napkin. 571 00:34:25,850 --> 00:34:29,590 And asking me to stay at the airport with him, 572 00:34:30,690 --> 00:34:32,469 shower with him. Shut up. 573 00:34:32,710 --> 00:34:38,850 And literally he said, you know, you could either go home and get the notes 574 00:34:38,850 --> 00:34:42,230 you and your family would have wrote, or you could stay at the airport. 575 00:34:42,530 --> 00:34:43,889 Shut up. I'm not kidding. 576 00:34:44,389 --> 00:34:47,389 On the plane. I don't even stay in the shower with him. 577 00:34:47,730 --> 00:34:49,090 I mean, it's kind of creepy. 578 00:34:50,610 --> 00:34:53,730 But, like, if he's hot, it could be kind of fun. 579 00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:55,679 Can I tell you something, Kyle? 580 00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:57,960 Do you know how many times a day that happens? 581 00:34:58,660 --> 00:35:00,020 Other than to you. No. 582 00:35:02,420 --> 00:35:02,820 How 583 00:35:02,820 --> 00:35:09,960 are 584 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:13,140 you? How are you, ma 'am? I'm good. We are three. 585 00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:14,360 It's under Rachel Dell. 586 00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:17,120 Thank you. Isn't that gorgeous? 587 00:35:17,540 --> 00:35:18,780 Oh, where are we sitting? Over here. 588 00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:20,300 Thank you. Thank you. 589 00:35:20,620 --> 00:35:21,620 She's so beautiful. 590 00:35:22,220 --> 00:35:24,000 I worry about her. Put her on the chair. 591 00:35:24,380 --> 00:35:26,000 I would die if she got spilled on. 592 00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:30,020 I'd love to order a glass of wine. Yeah, I need a drink. I think I've wanted the 593 00:35:30,020 --> 00:35:31,020 hair of the dog. 594 00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:34,700 Oh, thank you. By the way, do you know what I mean? It's like the hair of the 595 00:35:34,700 --> 00:35:37,480 dog is what I've been missing. I've been dying all day today. Maybe I need a 596 00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:40,320 glass of wine with ice. Maybe that's going to make it better. Oh, definitely. 597 00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:43,840 Belvedere with club soda. 598 00:35:44,740 --> 00:35:46,780 How many times have you heard her order this drink? 599 00:35:47,860 --> 00:35:49,360 Do you hear her while you're sleeping? 600 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:53,820 I'll try the Chablis. I'll try the Chablis. 601 00:35:54,220 --> 00:35:57,620 Can I have a hot mint tea? You're welcome. Thanks so much. 602 00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:01,600 You guys, today's the craziest anniversary for me. 603 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:07,260 It's exactly one year since my whole entire life broke open. 604 00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:09,960 Wow. Is today the 3rd? 605 00:36:11,340 --> 00:36:13,080 Yeah, August 3rd. 606 00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:18,460 He was in Aspen, and I wouldn't go to Aspen because I had to host something 607 00:36:18,460 --> 00:36:19,460 here. 608 00:36:19,580 --> 00:36:25,300 it's like a whole thing but anyway so whatever happened happened and then i i 609 00:36:25,300 --> 00:36:30,900 just i just split open and like i just remember literally being on the ground 610 00:36:30,900 --> 00:36:34,940 and i remember crying more than i've ever i think i was just like an actual 611 00:36:34,940 --> 00:36:38,280 anyway what do you mean whatever happened happened whatever happened i've 612 00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:42,560 fight it's just yeah you got into a fight and then it happened and i just 613 00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:44,980 like i'm done i'm done i'm done i'm done 614 00:36:45,690 --> 00:36:49,150 The last two years were probably the worst on and off with like back and 615 00:36:49,150 --> 00:36:53,950 and reconciling and fighting and reconciling and fighting. And we're 616 00:36:54,050 --> 00:36:55,050 you know. 617 00:36:55,410 --> 00:37:01,010 But some things happen for reasons to force your hand. 618 00:37:01,550 --> 00:37:07,530 And in this case, that weekend of August 2nd, 3rd, 2024, 619 00:37:07,910 --> 00:37:11,130 just made it real easy to go. 620 00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:15,640 Did you find out about through the grapevine, or did he confess something 621 00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:19,500 you, or how did you come to know whatever he did that upset you so much? 622 00:37:21,460 --> 00:37:27,620 You know, he, um, well, he told me. 623 00:37:40,060 --> 00:37:41,360 So when he was in Athens, 624 00:37:42,290 --> 00:37:46,210 Whatever he did, did you find out about through the grapevine, or did he confess 625 00:37:46,210 --> 00:37:49,490 something to you, or how did you come to know whatever he did that upset you so 626 00:37:49,490 --> 00:37:55,170 much? He, um... Well, he told me. 627 00:37:58,030 --> 00:37:59,870 I just had Brian Atwood's birthday. 628 00:38:00,710 --> 00:38:02,750 I had just come home from the night. 629 00:38:07,090 --> 00:38:08,090 There was a call. 630 00:38:12,490 --> 00:38:16,890 Honestly, it's like I saw red and just hung up. 631 00:38:18,690 --> 00:38:25,150 The way that we were married, I never looked at his phone, not once. I never 632 00:38:25,150 --> 00:38:29,330 my life not even thought about, talked about, considered. 633 00:38:29,750 --> 00:38:30,770 Did he apologize? 634 00:38:31,190 --> 00:38:32,190 Did he cry? 635 00:38:32,490 --> 00:38:33,490 No. 636 00:38:34,550 --> 00:38:39,270 People have always asked me over the years, what's the secret to our success? 637 00:38:40,430 --> 00:38:42,230 The first answer was always trust. 638 00:38:43,610 --> 00:38:50,510 Like, when that trust is broken, 639 00:38:50,610 --> 00:38:53,850 it's like broken. 640 00:38:54,570 --> 00:38:55,750 There's no going back. 641 00:38:57,330 --> 00:39:01,610 A lot of people were like, oh, well, did he tell you because he wanted to hurt 642 00:39:01,610 --> 00:39:02,610 you? 643 00:39:03,330 --> 00:39:04,330 Oh. 644 00:39:05,690 --> 00:39:07,950 So you don't think he told you because he felt guilty? 645 00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:13,040 Yes, because he's never lied to me a day in his life. 646 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:18,060 So I think it's partly that. And I think it's also like, I want to see if you 647 00:39:18,060 --> 00:39:18,999 still give a shit. 648 00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,240 I want to see if you care even this much. You want to see if you can get a 649 00:39:21,240 --> 00:39:25,380 reaction from him. Yeah. And my reaction is, I can't come back. 650 00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:28,420 I can't unhear. I can't unsee. 651 00:39:28,780 --> 00:39:33,100 I can't unknow. I can't unknow. So what do you think it is, honey? Was he always 652 00:39:33,100 --> 00:39:34,100 a little insecure? 653 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:36,160 He was a secure person. 654 00:39:37,100 --> 00:39:41,920 up until the last six, seven years, and then it just went down. In fact, when we 655 00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:45,660 were first together in New York and he was an investment banker, I was building 656 00:39:45,660 --> 00:39:49,780 my career as a stylist, and I was working 20 hours a day, seven days a 657 00:39:49,780 --> 00:39:52,720 was flying all over the world. I was going to fashion weeks. I was gone for 658 00:39:52,720 --> 00:39:55,360 three weeks at a time, and he never held me back. 659 00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:57,460 Never. He was like, go, do, be. 660 00:39:57,760 --> 00:39:58,760 He's like... 661 00:39:58,860 --> 00:40:02,100 He was so secure. And everyone would ask him, like, how do you let her do that? 662 00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:06,380 She's going styling all these huge male celebrities, these big male supermodels. 663 00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:09,660 These guys are hitting on her all the time, like whatever. And he was always 664 00:40:09,660 --> 00:40:11,680 like, if they can get her, they can have her. 665 00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:14,440 But it worked because I never cheated on him. 666 00:40:14,660 --> 00:40:18,000 Like I would flirt with guys that would flirt with me. And that was like nothing 667 00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:23,040 ever. And the one time I fooled around with this model was like. 668 00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:27,340 Before we got engaged, he was the most beautiful thing I'd ever seen in my 669 00:40:27,460 --> 00:40:32,020 And I told him because I felt so bad. I don't do that. How long were you guys 670 00:40:32,020 --> 00:40:35,040 together when you did it? At that point, probably four years at that point. 671 00:40:35,460 --> 00:40:39,040 And then I told him that I fooled around with this guy. 672 00:40:39,260 --> 00:40:42,180 And I'm not joking. He proposed to me the next day. 673 00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:43,840 Yeah, true story. 674 00:40:44,240 --> 00:40:47,160 Like, what kind of marriage are you setting yourself up for? 675 00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:51,500 Okay, I cheated on you. And guess what? I got a big dime in the next day. 676 00:40:52,300 --> 00:40:54,300 I mean, that's sort of setting the precedent now. 677 00:40:55,420 --> 00:40:58,940 How did he deal with that situation, by the way? He was fine. He was so secure. 678 00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:03,760 That's what I'm saying. There is nothing about the person that is that resembles 679 00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:04,860 the person that was. 680 00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,520 And look, people are allowed to change. They're allowed to change for the worse? 681 00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:16,260 They are. And in fact, he made it very clear that he was very happy in who he 682 00:41:16,260 --> 00:41:17,260 had become. 683 00:41:17,470 --> 00:41:21,390 I have to say thank you that it happened. Whatever happened, I have to 684 00:41:21,390 --> 00:41:24,690 because otherwise I'd spend another six years being loyal, waiting for someone 685 00:41:24,690 --> 00:41:27,110 that I once knew to come back. 686 00:41:27,330 --> 00:41:31,950 That's right. But anyway, so take your tea because I'm going to give it, I'm 687 00:41:31,950 --> 00:41:34,870 going to give a closing toast. You guys, it's been a whirlwind. 688 00:41:35,190 --> 00:41:36,190 We have not slept. 689 00:41:36,390 --> 00:41:37,610 I had the best weekend. 690 00:41:37,830 --> 00:41:39,150 I honestly needed this. 691 00:41:39,390 --> 00:41:40,189 so badly. 692 00:41:40,190 --> 00:41:43,230 So how have you met my family? Cause I talk about you guys all the time and now 693 00:41:43,230 --> 00:41:46,770 at least they know two of you. Oh, well, thank you. I feel like they understand 694 00:41:46,770 --> 00:41:51,690 my life more. They understand me more. I definitely feel like I know them both 695 00:41:51,690 --> 00:41:55,710 so much better. And I really think like, I really think the two of them needed 696 00:41:55,710 --> 00:41:59,430 this time together. I just kind of feel like there was a lot of love all around. 697 00:41:59,920 --> 00:42:03,040 Here is to continuing this in Los Angeles. 698 00:42:03,260 --> 00:42:07,500 Yes. I love that. Do I get to plan it each time, or is it my turn? We'll take 699 00:42:07,500 --> 00:42:09,280 turns. I'll show you the video. 700 00:42:11,380 --> 00:42:15,260 Next time on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. 701 00:42:15,770 --> 00:42:17,930 While I'm gone, you're going to be good to stay with us? 702 00:42:18,250 --> 00:42:18,888 We'll see. 703 00:42:18,890 --> 00:42:23,410 And if she is there, you have every right to not be there. I thought we 704 00:42:23,410 --> 00:42:25,090 take a trip to Italy. 705 00:42:25,310 --> 00:42:27,110 Look at that. Oh, my God. Look at how gorgeous. 706 00:42:27,650 --> 00:42:30,290 Dorit can be hard to get your point across. 707 00:42:30,530 --> 00:42:34,270 But I think if she wanted to get to know me, there would be space for me to 708 00:42:34,270 --> 00:42:39,750 speak. I talked to Kyle. She was just like, I'm worried about Dorit. Her moods 709 00:42:39,750 --> 00:42:40,870 are erratic.